Because variety could be the spice of one’s sex-life.

Intercourse could be a terrific way to reconnect together with your partner, or cement an increasing bond in a brand new relationship. Some partners are content using the periodic mutually-satisfying quickie, or perhaps a regularly-scheduled week-end session that depends on the exact same ol’ reliable roles to obtain the work done. (The “job” means a climax, in the event that has beenn’t clear.) Meanwhile, other people may count on a trusty model each and every time.

Like all kinds of consensual intercourse, a routine that works is A-OK. Yet studies have shown repeatedly that attempting things that are new in and away from bed—can help keep consitently the spark alive. So just why perhaps not change it out up every so often?

“it’s a flop, that can be positive, too,” says August McLaughlin, author of GirlBoner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment if you try something new and. Laugh together when things have wonky. The vulnerability, goofiness, and also messiness of intercourse can bolster closeness, them. (more…)