Unusually, Sonja’s husband would not need a breakup after 5 years. Evidently because, at that time, that they had a boy that is little fate complicated things. Sonja’s husband desired to make sure he’d enjoy single custody of the son before he left.

They finally divorced just 2 yrs ago, after Sonja decided to keep her son, then eight, with her ex-husband. He soon remarried their very very first spouse, now lives outside Stuttgart with her therefore the son he previously by Sonja.

Sonja does not understand the story that is whole of wedding, many Kosovar Albanians living into the neighbourhood are very well alert to the secrets of her ex-husband’s history.

She understands only that her ex-husband remarried “an Albanian woman who didn’t have papers”. She nevertheless thinks she hitched for love and doesn’t know very well what went incorrect.

Tradition pushed aside

Many Kosovar Albanians defend the training of males going abroad to find short-term international wives that are second purchase to enhance their leads.

Valdrin Hoxha, an unemployed 23-year-old from Pristina, stated he’d perform some thing that is same he could.

“i might show my loved ones that after obtaining the EU documents I would personally divorce my wife that is foreign and a Kosovar woman, ” he claims, confidently.

Years back, just infertility could legitimately split up partners, claims Hamdi that is 71-year-old Veliu from Polac, a town in main Kosovo. (more…)